Friday, June 1, 2012

APPROPRIATE BEHAVIOR IN THE HAIR SALON

When we go to the hair salon, there are certain things that are expected like receiving a great haircut or great customer service. What we do not deserve is someone exhibiting inappropriate behavior in the salon. No one really wants to talk about this, but of course here on Comessenyc, we can discuss anything and everything about the salon experience. So ladies and gents, here are all the things that you should not do in a hair salon.


“Oh, what about you hairstylists!” you ask. “Shouldn’t you check yourselves, too?”


Don’t worry, child. You know I'm going to cover it all!

Clients talking on cell phones-
Only if President Obama is calling should you answer. We all have emergencies, so exceptions must be made. But do you really need to talk on the phone when getting your hair washed? I don't think so.



Consistently late for appointments-
 You know who you are. We all do too. Showing up late affects the appointment of the next clients throughout the day. If you are half an hour late when its’ a busy day for the hairstylist, you should be encouraged to come another day. This way you also get your full service (and so does everyone else).



Always asking for a discount-
Do you ask your doctor for a discount? Or how about your dentist? This is not the flea market. However, when close clients started loosing their jobs because of the recession it was normal for me to give clients a break in price. We are a family after all!



Calling four weeks later to say your color is not right- 
Four weeks is a very long time. If your color is not to your liking, you should notice something in the first week. I believe two weeks is more than enough time for you to notice if the coverage was not to your liking or if unwanted color tones are present. As soon as you notice, call the salon and most professionals will be willing to correct your hair color if necessary.



Keep in mind if you wanted a single process and feel you want some lighter pieces, that's a separate process at a separate cost.



Dogs in the salon-
 When I last checked there were no laws against dogs in salons. If your dog is well behaved, big or small, it should not be a problem. Please keep in mind the size of the salon may not accommodate a big dog and it may be difficult for stylists and clients to move around freely.





Now it's the stylists’ turn to face the music.

Always late-
If a stylist is always late, chances are they did not get to work on time. This is a sign of unprofessionalism. It may also be that the stylist is overbooked. Honestly, the client should not have to suffer in order for the stylist to make more money.



Juggling too many clients-
 This is coming from someone who for years did 3 clients at a time, having assistants finish my work. Today, I understand the value of my doing all the work myself. It's mostly beneficial to the client, giving them their money’s worth and a quality of work that no assistant can give. This type of service is an advantage to the stylist and a disadvantage to the client.




A hairstylist that gets upset when their client tries to see another hairstylist-
 A client is allowed to go to anyone they wish to. Sometimes we the stylists get stuck in ruts and the client wants something new or a new pair of ears to talk to. It could even be that the client may have seen another stylist’s work and wants some of what he or she has to offer. But whatever the case, the moral of the story is, let's celebrate the client’s wants.



The “diva” hairstylist-
 If you are considered the diva of the salon, it generally is not a compliment – it’s a sign of insecurity. Who else would walk around the salon making demands, bullying assistants and clients, and expressing major entitlement? Only the diva hairstylist.



Hairstylists talking too much-
 How annoying is it to have a hairstylist that only talks about him or herself? I once heard a client say to a hairstylist, that she was having a bad day because of a sick loved one. Then to hear the hairstylist respond by saying "Oh my God, I saw a great movie recently!" Really? Loud-mouthed stylists (and you know who you are), learn when to keep your mouths shut and listen once in a while!





This is a short look at the areas in which we as clients and hairstylists can improve. At the end of the day, we should all be able to smile and laugh at ourselves a bit as we decide to improve our salon etiquette for next time. ;)



The editing of this blog was done by Camile Lamb of the Perfect Words,Ink.

Monday, May 28, 2012

MY WORK.






















Wednesday, May 23, 2012

MY FRIEND LUIS MORAIS

Meeting Luis Morais was definitely the highlight of my year in Miami. He is very much a mentor, friend, amazing jeweler and we both admire each others work.










Take a look at more of his amazing work.

Antonio Gonzales

Friday, May 18, 2012

HAIR ON THE STREETS OF MANHATTAN.

Walking through Union Square today I could not help but notice this beauty and her hair. Intrigued by her individuality I just had to ask, what products do you use in your hair? She looked at me, smiled and said I use absolutely nothing!

This is why I moved back to NYC!!








Tuesday, May 15, 2012

THE BEST OF AVEDA

Like most other big brand-names in hair, Aveda just has way too many products! How many hair products do we really need? Well, let me share a secret with you. Shhh...


The idea behind this is the more choices, the more products the consumer will try, and if for some reason you get bored with one product, you don't have to switch brands. There’s enough to choose from so you won’t go astray.



It’s the similar pitch when a hairstylist recommends you five products. Chances are you won't buy all five, but four or three. So if you're recommended three you may only take one, and nobody needs only one product…do they? Lol!



After working with this line for eight months, here are the products you should have. Keep in mind with Aveda, a lot or readers either love the smells or hate them.



The Phomollient: This is a styling liquid foam that adds shine and volume. I use this product on all hair types actually, especially on men with wavy hair. It contains honey, plant fibers, and rice.


Smooth infusion styling prep: This is a great product to blow dry curly hair straight. If you have super-thick hair and like to air dry, apply some if this to the hair and hand-style as desired. It's not too heavy or greasy and rinses off easily.




Scalp Remedy Dandruff Solution: Rumor in the village is that this is a miracle product and helps quickly with dryness and irritation of the scalp. They canot keep it on the shelf!


Retexturing Gel: One of my favorites for adding a little lift at the roots for blow drying and to men's hair that's longer and wavy. It's easy to apply and not as flakey as some gels. If you use a curl cream and wear your hair naturally, add a little of this to your cream for extra hold and definition.



Damage Control: Hold on, this is another of my favorites!! Love, love, love this. All hair types, all ages, all races, men and women. It's a light leave-in conditioner that works.
With men in mind-

Control Paste: It’s similar to Sumotech by Bumble and Bumble and the paste by Shu Uemura. It's ideal for men's hair without leaving it too shiny.

Pure Performance Exfoliating Shampoo: guys, you would love the way these smell, feel, and the finish they leave in your hair. This shampoo helps remove build-up of waxes and pastes.


Well, there you have it. These are my personal favorites. I'm sure if you're familiar with this line you may already have yours. For the people who have always wanted to try Aveda but were confused by the many choices, I hope this was helpful to you.



The editing of this blog was done by Camile Lamb of the Perfect Words,Ink.

Wednesday, May 9, 2012

THANK YOU FOR CHANGING THE WORLD OF HAIR VIDAL SASSOON


I just heard about the death of Vidal Sassoon and my prayers are with the family. Vidal Sassoon changed the way we see hair forever and I know hairstylists world wide will be mourning his loss. Vidal Sassoon we all love you.




Thursday, May 3, 2012

FIGHTING DRY HAIR

In a world bombarded with hair care products, it’s obvious there is a big demand for healthier hair. As it stands, we are a “drying” race. :)



What happened? At what point did things change for the worse?



Having a great view of things from behind the chair and having seen hair products come and go, I would like to share with you my thoughts of the good, the bad, and the ugly in hair care and habits which can cause you to have damaged hair.



Cheap shampoos and conditioners: Rumor is that it does not matter what shampoo and conditioner you use. This is DEAD WRONG! It makes all the difference in the world and I have seen it proven over and over again.



Yes, I know a good shampoo and conditioner can be expensive, but they’re worth it. If you are on a budget, try having two fewer cocktails or one less dinner at a restaurant and save up for a bottle of Kérastase Age Recharge shampoo or Chroma Riche.



Bad hair brushes: So many women have those evil plastic brushes with the little plastic balls at the end. Generally, when you look at one it's full of hair, right? These brushes are very harsh on the hair and the bristles are so stiff that the hair just snaps.




I want you to get up right now, put on some eye shadow, a little lip gloss, and go purchase a large tooth comb to detangle your hair (when it's wet). While you're at it, buy a paddle brush to follow up with after detangling with the comb. The paddle brush is also good for blow drying. I highly recommend you get "your Colorists favorite brush".


And if you can skip the cocktails for two months (the horror) I strongly suggest you invest

in a Mason Pearson brush. This brush will make love to your hair! The bristles move with the hair and they’re gentle on the scalp.



Blow drying or flat ironing without products on the hair: Although the hair may be wet when you are blow drying, that's not enough to battle the heat of the blow dryer. Try turning the dryer on and putting it against your skin... That’s right, she's hot! Your poor hair, sniff sniff...



Always, always apply product to your hair before blow drying and especially before flat ironing!



Hair color: I don't have to go in to too much detail with this one. If it’s a chemical, it's hard on your hair.



Tanning salons: Especially if your hair is dry and color treated, I recommended applying some UV protection to your hair and covering your hair with a towel or a cap.



Pulling or twirling your ends when bored: I was in traffic the other day, and in the car across from me there was a woman pulling her hair over and over, and pulling at her damaged ends. This does not help matters, so leave your poor hair alone! ;)



Rubber bands, harsh fabric/nylon hair bands, and those big metal clips covered in rhinestones: The rhinestones alone will make your hair want to curl up and die!! Use softer fabric hair bands or scarves.



Salt water: As much as it may look and feel good on the hair,


the salt is munching away at your hair shaft. I know someone who had color treated hair and had the best in hair care products, but her hair still broke because of swimming in the ocean three times a week. All 10 inches of it!



We the hairstylists: Too much heat on your highlights, metal brushes, putting the nozzle of the dryer against the hair, too many Keratin treatments, very high volume peroxide in the bleach, and constantly overlapping hair color when doing touch-ups. Keep in mind that when you are having a touch-up, it may be necessary to only color the new growth not coloring over the previously colored hair. Especially if you're using permanent color to cover the roots (gray hair), a demi permanent color can be used on the ends. Demi permanent dyes contains less peroxide and no ammonia and are more gentle on the porous ends.



Ladies, keep in mind that you can have healthy hair, but it's impossible to have it all. So if you are obsessed with being a bleached blond, then your hair will be dry. If you are not taking suggestions from your trusted hairstylist and buying professional hair products, your hair will be dry. It's simple: if you neglect your hair, the result is a cupboard full of hair products aimed at the impossible goal of resuscitating it.



I wish you healthy, beautiful hair!

The editing of this blog was done by Camile Lamb of the Perfect Words,Ink.

Friday, April 27, 2012

ANTONIO GONZALES RETURNING TO ORLO SALON NYC.

I am very happy to share with my readers that I will soon be returning to New York City! On the first of June, I will be resuming my position at the wonderful Orlo salon,

owned by our favorite hairstylist Orlando Pita.
As usual, I will keep you up to date with all the latest from our industry with articles, images, and soon videos.



Working at Orlo not only gives me the opportunity to learn firsthand what happens in the beauty industry (Orlando's work).
It also allows me to keep my focus on honesty and quality first. After being away from NYC for over a year and living in Miami, I have had the opportunity to fall in love with New York like never before. I have also had the chance to find my new love in volunteering.



In the past year, I was privileged to work with a wonderful group of young ladies at Casa Valentina and to share my views on the importance of individuality and how beauty is still just “skin deep.”
I also had the opportunity to meet the wonderful nurses at Oceanside Extended Care in South Beach, where I gave free haircuts to the very sick patients.
I can't begin to describe how it felt to see someone who can't walk or speak stare at themselves in the mirror as I cut their hair. Their resulting smiles left me feeling a huge sense of gratitude.



Together with my new friend in Miami,
I was also able to collect donations and make sandwiches for sometimes more than 200 homeless people in downtown Miami every six weeks or so. I'm looking forward to recruiting friends in NYC to do the same for the homeless there.



I share this because the gift of giving came to me at a very difficult time in my life. As they say, the only way to true happiness is gratitude and learning to appreciate how fortunate we are.


So thanks again to my readers and I'll see you in the Big Apple! ;)